Relationship Repair

When we go from a mis matching state to a matching state, what i call a repair, a number of things happen to us. One is that we come to know how to fix miss matches. When you repair that match, you now feel connected with the partner and you also repair that negative, even small amount of negative affect that you are experiencing. The repair also gives you a sense of control and a sense of your own self as being effective. It makes a dance better in a lot of ways. Why wouldn't just being an sink all the time do that? Why does one need to more or less break something and fix it to make it?"

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