A, i'd give it a 50% chance that there are times early on in relationships where you willingly let people cross boundaries. And so if we really think about where is the expectation, like, so people love you, melina, because when we talked about this last time, you put other people first. A, ause i doesn't loe me feeling that way. But it is like really weird. And i see that the stuff like this happens a lot, yes. S i think, like i mentiond some time ago, i think that like may be what we need to talk about as boundaries.