A lot of times when you meet somebody look this is all project Right, it's a project Sam. There's a reason there's a reason and what's interesting is if you look at their their spouses over those six They're usually the same make and a different model Yeah And the reason that they're the same make is that you're attracting the same kind of person again and again because that's right That's who you are. So you could change the model, but the make's not gonna change, you know, that's right It's the same person within a different shell, right? I have friends even at my you know, I'm pretty young still for For life, you