Is It a Net Positive to Be Funny or More Charismatic?

I think one of my biggest regrets is that I didn't put myself out there romantically at university. Like, if I sort of had a crush on someone, I just kind of have a crush on them and not even think about doing anything about it. So being fully okay with who you are, but and recognizing that you're trying to find someone who also likes that. It's probably net positive to like try and improve yourself after that. But then there is the other side, as you said, of the fact that it is a net positive to be in shape or more charismatic. There is someone out there for everyone.