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Is She's Not for Me?
i see it happening early, very early in relationships. The peoplell go, m put this relationship lasting over just me being happy. I didn't even realize the amount of behaviours that were to make sure that i stayed at the top of her list. It is a response to recognizing that a part of ourselves is going to distance us from people that are important to our survival. So you develop shame over your body, or you hit your sister and they say, you're a bad boy. Don't be like that. You develop shame with regard to your frustration and anger and capacity for that. And that it's this biological reaction, like fightor flight, that is not an emotion.