
319: Cracking the Nut - How to Breakthrough the Hard Shell Around Your Partner
Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy
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The Pursuer - The Protection Strategy
Wel start with the pursuer. What we see their actions, right? Is the anger, the frustration, the criticism,. The message to their partner that they don't care, they're not engaging. They need to do something differently. And typically, for us pursuers, our protective strategy would be to protest, to get upset, angry, criticise and maybe also threaten. So that fight a flight response is trying to mtivateed change.
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