What Accountability Looks Like?

The path to rectifying this within ourselves is not external. The more conversations we have about it, the more im cued in to that intuition you will be. And i don't want you to use this sort of diagnosis of an of an avoidant attachment style as a weapon to justify riling things over and over in the same way. Yes, caviat, doing things differently doesn't mean going along with a relational request that feels counter intuitive to your wishes or whatever. This is all of our path. This is part of decision making as an adult. There's also nothing wrong with having an Avoidant Attachment Style. I've said this to many anxiously-attached folks