The Importance of Passive Love in Relationships

I think it's still related to relationships like with people wanting to all kind of like become the same, have the same like preferences and stuff. And I think that yeah, I just I don't think that's like obviously plausible or realistic if everyone actually has different preferences, different lifestyles, et cetera. It almost like dehumanizes like like your partner, your love interest because you're like comparing them to what you said, like the ideal, like the imaginary. Like there is this sort of like, and I think this goes way before TikTok. Maybe I think it feeds into the sort of passive love we're talking about to kind of bring it back that we kind of use