I'm Just Not Getting It Right, but I Can't Make It Right for Me

"I think i ignore it a lot. Like i'll feel like i'm already too far committed in and by the time that my instincts are telling me, oh, this was not the right decision," she says. "We often do things because we feel bad for the other person." We all have layers of pressure to be a certain wayto show up in the world in a certain way,. But your true self is your design; you can look at something as good on paper but really know there's more to it than that. 'You actually hit the nail on the head when you said, ou kno, going against what i felt wasn't the right fit'