Are You Getting Attached to Your Contraction?

In the book, you also mentione that sometimes we can get attached to our contraction. And i think back to another show that we did with robert fritz, who talks about systems thinking. One of the things he talked about was the patterns that show up both in businesses as well as in humans. We have two goals that might slightly contradict each other. As we get closer to one goal, it increases the desire to go back to the other goal which competes with it.