Capturing Christianity With the Church

Last church that we were at, the one that had the infidelity issue, which i guess t doesn't really narrow it down. The most recent one that we weren't on board with him being the pastor there. But so i just didn't have a good experience of trying to connect, capturing christianity with the church. I got blown off by the guy, and a, like he wouldn't respond to my text. So i just kind of dropped it. And so with this church that were currently attending, i haven't even brought subject up with any one because, partly because of our previous one. We want to learn more about the church, learn more about who the leaders