"I don't like to accept help when i en part of me, or a lot of me, feels like i can do it myself," Richard says. "To accept help means that there's something wrong with me, or it feels like that way." He asks the group: Why do you guys think he's pushing you away? And other people can answer too, if they can relate to richard's situation. 'You can only ever truly be your own certainty in life'