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The Psychology of Attraction
Investing in something or someone actually makes us invest more. We have to start making this psychology work for us when it comes to our dating lives. Look at the people who obsess over their cars the most. They're the ones who wash their cars, they tinker with them and upgrade them. That's what makes us care. And we think by never getting someone to invest and ask, by not asking for anything, that we're somehow making ourselves indispensable in their lives. But what's actually happening is this person isn't getting the experience of investing in you.