004 - Fundamentals: The Basics of Boundaries
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
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Is It a Boundary?
It can be very easily twisted and used as a punishment. If they push into that, in this case, by lying, your reaction is to be pushed back out. So your boundary can stay in place. Wy it wears like an ultimatum, you tend to stay in it. And be like, i'm going to do this if you don't do that, ri cause yo're tying to get them to change. As opposed to a boundary, which is more like that last line of defence. That's something I'm not willing to rate in my life.
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