Is There a Difference Between a Chemistry and a Passionless Root?

Chemistry is really important. You can tell whether or not somebody is compatible to you in that way. And i think it's important to remember that people do have different kind of that they are turned off by different things, and there are certain things that just ar deal breakers to people. I guess i'm a and what a time to bring this up, at the end of the episode. But i guess i'm wondering if the idea of someone who has chemistry but is holding themselves back s is one that many people find themselves in? If this is just a complete straw man that we're setting up here?