Understanding and Appreciating Your Children's Interests

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Exploring the significance of embracing your children's hobbies and preferences, even if they differ from your own, to establish deeper connections with them. A heartwarming anecdote highlights a father's journey towards appreciating his step-daughter's musical taste, emphasizing the importance of empathy and shared understanding in parent-child relationships.

It had been a long day. He was tired. He just wanted his teenage step-daughter Tegan, from the indie pop duo Tegan and Sara, to stop blasting the same album over and over. Besides, he hated Nirvana, which was just then about the biggest band in the world. So he told her to turn it off. He told her the music was driving him insane.

He was well within his rights…up until the point that he made a joke about Kurt Cobain’s sexuality. He should have known better. As Tegan explains in her fascinating book, High School (a must read for any parent with artistic children), she was just then coming to terms with her own identity. She went ballistic at her father. She was inconsolable. It was clearly not about the music at all.

Finally, after many apologies, her dad was able to talk to her. She played Nirvana’s Unplugged album for him. A fan of David Bowie, he was surprised by their cover of “The Man Who Sold the World.”

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