If some one has made it clear to you that they have more to give, but they're not going to give it. What does that say? Why would you want to be with some one like that? I think you should have the self respect to take your talents elsewhere. If you are their back up plant, you should lieve as their back up plan. And i wanted to focus specifically on that awareness that you don't deserve to be someone's backup plant. Think about how much you've grown and however old you are,. Think about those various partners who came before you. Anikra: We need to learn to draw a line in the sand and stay firm in our convictions