Philosophy is not meant to cut other people down and make yourself feel better. If you're using it for anything other than that, whether that's to garnour attention and look good or to cut some one else down, then it's not going to give you what it promises. To pursue what is meaningful often foregoes instant gratification on the way to get there. We use philosophy because it helps us to create that unshakable inner peace.
“The philosopher’s school is a doctor’s clinic: you should not go there expecting pleasure but rather pain.” – Epictetus
“Philosophy does not propose to secure for a man any external thing. If it did (or if it were not, as I say), philosophy would be allowing something which is not within its province.” -Epictetus
“Let philosophy scrape off your own faults, rather than be a way to rail against the faults of others.” -Seneca
"This is therefore to say that the transformation of human consciousness through meditation is frustrated so long as we think of it as something that I by myself can bring about, by some sort of wangle, by some sort of gimmick. Because you see it leads to endless games of spiritual oneupmanship. And of guru competition. Of my guru being more effective than your guru. My yogas are faster than your yoga. I am more aware of myself than you are. I am humbler than you are. I am sorrier for my sins than you are. I love you more than you love me. There’s this interminable goings on where people fight and wonder whether they are a bit more evolved than somebody else and so on.” -Alan Watts