The fun of telling your top NO, sexual fluidity, surprisingly sensitive nipples, and polyamorous dating while married—Avalon shares how erotica, art, and deep, loving connections have helped her create a life of exploration that keeps her excited.
00:00 Learning about self-love through her first romantic relationship
06:14 Sensorial artistic delights and practicing self kindness
13:52 How an eight-year-long committed relationship helps her practice receiving
15:42 The magic of instant chemistry and self awareness of her relational needs
23:31 Expectationless expectations, partnership evolutions, and staying open to exploration
26:00 How having a bi partner helped her discover more about her own sexuality
28:00 Swinger parents influence on judgement-free love and open relationships
36:02 Learning how to process and communicate big emotions with a partner
38:10 Navigating social expectations around jealousy, internalized assumptions, and different communication styles
43:09 Knowing herself and noticing the patterns she received from trauma
44:59 A new era of non-monogamy and the roller coaster of dating on apps
50:10 A barroom quickie, a ghost, and setting goals for first dates
56:13 Best friend sexsplorations and learning different sides of herself come out with different partners
1:00:42 Needing an emotional connection for sex and the bests and worsts of online dating
1:04:17 Playful power dynamics and wanting partners to take control
1:09:36 Embracing and understanding her brattiness
1:17:20 Smutty book surprises and understanding compulsive heterosexuality
1:21:01 Learning about sex from insightful, playful podcasts
1:24:44 A desire for beautiful, sensual porn
1:28:33 Exploring her queerness and relationship through nude self portraiture
1:32:14 Understanding non-monogamous sexual attraction and navigating societal expectations of envy
1:36:31 Threesomes with her husband and best friend and the joy of being the center of attention
1:41:48 Reflecting on internal jealousy and creating the right circumstances for physical intimacy
1:46:44 What she finds hot in fiction vs turn-ons in real life
1:49:15 Favorite positions and how she hits on her partner
1:55:51 Embracing overstimulation and the magic of air sucker clit stimulators
1:59:20 Exploring restraints and where she likes being bitten
2:06:50 Playful brattiness and subverting gender roles in the bedroom
2:09:39 Favorite adult toys, a love of edging, and pillow humping preferences
2:13:49 Reverse harem and overstimulation dreams
2:16:30 Open to more: sex parties, hot accents, and dating women
2:20:19 Spreading love via clear expectations, RPGs with friends, and thoughtfully connecting with every person she meets
📈 STATS | 32 bisexual white Latina cis woman, she/her pronouns, in an 8 year relationship (married for 2) and actively dating, polyamorous, brat, into: talking about relationships, power dynamics, fluid sexuality, sensory stimulation, long-term connections, and never-ending evolution
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