Finding Your Voice as a Person

i've travelled around the world by myself, and i love it, you know. Part of that is how i came into the world, and part of that is my experiences in the world. And again, if going back to artistry, i really believe finding your voice and as a person is knowing yourself as a person. It's peeling away the layers of what hafe i been told i'm supposed to be. How do we let that spirit shine with the maturity and consciousness of an adult?