How Long Does It Take?

Any amount of resentment that you have about this whole process is a 100% justified, and a hundred % needs to be dealt with. If you're hopeless and resentful, completely gatcobro or girl, or whatever you are in between, totally fine. Cause things non binary people are not easier. Figre out you can make enough fun. You can have making have fun. And then they see the desperation in your face, and then they'll like, the fuck is going on? So get out of your head. Focus on yourself. Put yourself out there, right? But give it time. Recognize that for the first year, second year, when you're putting