i love n you have so much sense. And the thing is that by saying something's not wrong doesn't mean we don't be really, really honest to see if it causes pain or separation. i also noticed in i'm teaching that i call it special person, where i'll do a workshop and, you know, so and a lot of adulation ill come my way. But i ont take that next step of just sensing the good feeling, but i'll own it more. What happens if i own it is i actually feel more separate from people. That will cause a suffering that'll then help me to remember not to own it. So  that keeps the specialness