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75. ALOK: How do we interrupt trauma? How do we heal?

We Can Do Hard Things

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Femininity Is Not Ending Gender Policing

When i was younger, i was an extremely effeminate child. I literally censored myself so much to become some hologram of what masculine culture told me to be. So the work that i am trying to now in healing my inner child is also developing my own relationship with my femininity. It's something that i choose when i'm wearing heels, when i'm putting on make up, when i have a wig. And and in our last conversation, we're talking about turfs. When the things you see in a lot of turf discourse is anti femininity. What's wrong is a culture that upholds masculinity as what it means to be a human ok, that's right.

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