The Boti Sot Vou

One of the recurring themes when people are dying is that they don't want to come back. It's almost something built into at least tibet an buddhism, to keep people engaged in the world. When you talk of the boti sot vou pops up, which is, we're going to forego this possibility until all beings are liberated. But it has to come from this wider perspective, otherwise we just get burned out.