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The Importance of Agency in Relationships
We think we want agency, but a lot of the time we don't. A real relationship is you actually have to choose a human being. Chasing someone all the time who doesn't want you isn't sure about you. That's a fake relationship. Growing up, I think, is realizing life ain't going to be perfect. People are not perfect and your choices aren't even really perfect. But choosing is pretty powerful. And once you actually choose, you can kind of use that as more energy to put into the choice.