Our guest this episode is Shaun Maslyk — a practicing Certified Financial Planner® and Certified Financial Behavior Specialist® who blends financial planning with positive psychology to help people understand their money stories and flourish beyond their finances. Shaun holds a master’s degree in positive psychology from the University of East London, where his research focused on the relationship between money, behaviour change and human happiness.
In this conversation, Dave and Shaun explore what the research really says about money and happiness — from whether happier people make better financial decisions to why more money doesn’t always lead to more joy. They unpack concepts like hedonic adaptation, the “arrival fallacy” of wealth and the unconscious money scripts that quietly shape our spending, saving and relationships. Shaun also challenges the idea that financial success is purely about optimization, making the case for peace of mind, values-based decisions and “sailing to the right island” in life.
If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re chasing the wrong financial goals — or how to make money decisions that actually improve your well-being — this episode is full of thought-provoking insights and practical takeaways.
Show Notes
(00:00) Intro & Disclaimer
(00:55) Intro to Shaun Maslyk
(03:39) Do Happier People Make Better Money Decisions?
(05:25) Research on Money, Happiness & Hedonic Adaptation
(11:45) The Arrival Fallacy of Wealth
(13:22) Money Stories & Unconscious Scripts
(16:17) How Money Scripts Affect Relationships
(20:51) Peace of Mind vs. Mathematical Optimization
(24:42) Do Walkers Have Better Financial Behaviour?
(26:57) Spending Summaries
(28:44) Make Sure You’re Sailing to the Right Island
(31:51) The Three Questions That Clarify Money Decisions
(35:43) Spending on Experiences vs. Possessions
(39:55) Too Much Luxury Can Reduce Joy
(41:02) What Would You Do If You Only Had 24 Hours to Live?
(43:10) Conclusion
