391: Finding Common Ground
Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy
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The Importance of Recognizing the Other Person's Role
Jane Lord: As a sexual pursuer, sometimes this part of us says, you know, I'll do this for you. If we look at those love languages, if we just oversimplify the sexual cycles looking for that touch, the emotional cycles looking for quality engagement and interest,. That quality time, they switch roles. The touch person initiates because that's what they're looking for, but they're receptive in the quality time conversations. And then the common ground, the other side, that emotional pursuer pushes for the quality time, the emotional engagement, but is receptive towards the touch part of it.
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