The Secret to Friendship

The secret to friendship is basically, more or less, fake it until you make it. For friendships to happen organically, we need continuous, unplanned interaction and shared vulnerability. Find a way to create that infra structure in your life where you have that continuous onplan interaction and chaered vulnerability. Do you like writing? Join a writing group. You like books, joind a book club. You like languages? Join a language group. Write. Remembering the people are less like rejectus than we think they are can be really useful. Meeting up with friends outside of that group starts really creating buds.