The Litmus Test for Parenting

I think what often happens, I wonder if you agree with this, is that we set up a litmus test for how good a parent will be based on giving my kids what I thought I wasn't given or not allowing them to be exposed to what I was exposed to. So as a mother, I'm going to be there for my kids and that's, we're not seeing anything else, but so long as we're there... That becomes the everything. Or I think for me, it was like I was wounded by pornography at a young age. And so for me, the litmus test is my kids will not see pornography,. Not realizing that God's bigger than pornography.