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#6: Q&A: On Anxious-Avoidant Relationships

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How to Reconnect After No Contact With an Avoidant Partner

How do I know if it was real love is maybe not the most helpful question to be asking yourself. What can I take away from this to inform my next relationship so that I'm going to be approaching that with my eyes open and really understanding how that can be? It does sort of depend on the period of time here. If an avoidant has gone quiet on you, they've probably deactivated, disengaged. But usually they pull away to self-regulate when they're feeling overwhelmed or unsafe.

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