What's on the Gravestone?

It's fastinating when you go back through your grandfather, great grandfather, great great grandfather and grandmother. And man, they did some hard, hard things just to get my ass here. Its som i think about quite a bit sometimes, and always wonder if i'm ready to do those same hard things. I've got a very strange fascination with graveyards also. What's on the gravestone? Is it your social mediat followers or what's on your obituary? Or is it your family and what you did for the community and how you made the world a better place? Like that's how people remember you.