If you're only looking at measures for your interaction with them, that's a great starting point. But i think you're missing out on the other 50%, which i would argue is 51%. And that's what i want to focus on here. The question i'll talk about is encouraging you to look at that 50 %. Do they make you love yourself more? Do they encourage you to listen to yourself more, understand yourself more and so on? That 50% is so, so important. Because ultimately, the right person will make you love himself more.