How to Provide Value in a Relationship

You can't enter a relationship and think you have to treat me amazingly. If you're not coming to the table and providing value either, OK? Stop expecting others to look out for you more than how you look out for yourself. And if you're not doing anything in exchange that's going to match or better what you're expecting, don't play the role of the victim. That is the number one way to fall victim to your circumstances.