If you do not have a, make it real simple, if you use the phrase ever at any point, we don't like labels. Free yourself from the chains of that phrase. Or accept them for exactly what they are and that you both are in the same place where that's exactly and only what you want. There are lots of types of relationships that can work. Yes. However, we have also all spent great many hours in therapy with people who do not check in with themselves or their other person of is this still working? Because they caught feelings and are hoping the other person will too.