How Do You Play the Game and Make Competent Decisions That Are Congruent With Your Growth?

I've grown in almost unfathomable ways over the last year, but I still have Mindsets from who I previously was when making incompetent choices. When you want to detach and you want to assess what's happening Take a step back right down. What's happening? Right down like you got to make a decision right down The pros and cons lists are good because it makes you look at it from a detached perspectiveYou keep it all in your mind. You're in it when you take when you write it down. Oh my gosh the bad really outweighs the good. Do you and this is kind of a weird hypothetical question for him do you let's say your 30 30-year