Relationships

When we do that, we increase the kind of sexual and romantic charge in the relationship. It doesn't happen unless we play with and experiment with our vulnerable asks. And when they respond wonderfully, the relationship deepens. The wave is like a spasm - it camouflages itself as this person isn't really good enough for me or i wouldn't want to become a member of any secret club. So you don't pressure yourself. You take space, you notice the things that you appreciate about your partner...you light up. Your feelings will come back"