I'm the Problem. Or We Can't Let It Go.

i think part of what i posit in the book is that a whole bunch of our life life's problems are of our own making, sot. We do when we go into situations with these defects at play as we give control of our peace to others and to the world. Like if i need your praise and affirmation to be happy, i'm a puppet to you. I'm setting my kids up to to make me angry. So like, i'm the problem. It's frick. The you are absolutely speaking to me right not. Endi don't know why. There was nothing obvious that happened. He just found himself irritated and irritableto his children who were going through