Finding Love Isn't a Passive Process

Roland Martin: How many of you out there have ever felt like somebody has only loved the idea of you rather than you? He says eric fram thinks in these kinds of transactional relationships, the tensity of the infatuation with each other is often correlated to just the intensity of the loneliness people had experienced before that. Martin: This isn't love; this is what can you do for me, and what can i do for you in return? In other words, you have essentially turned the person, you quote, onte love into a product to be consumed that provides your ego with some tangible benefit.