A lot of time it's very easy to go down that rabbit hole and not even realize you're doing it. A regular meditation practice or mindfulness practice does help one catch those kind of thoughts a little more quickly than they might otherwise. Sometimes I try to put on a guided meditation for perfectionism, which doesn't always work though because then you're like focusing too much on the problem. So I do find it helps more so to just change things up somehow,. Whether that just means deep breathing, taking a walk, stretching and that's been the most beneficial thing for me.
Forrest and Lori Deschene, founder of TinyBuddha.com, explore how we can learn to manage paralyzing experiences of anxiety and worry. This includes focusing on what you can control, limiting responsibility to a comfortable level, and developing comfort with uncertainty.
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Timestamps:
2:30: What was the inspiration behind Tiny Buddha?
5:30: Has engaging with self-help made you personally happier?
7:45: Worrying about being enough.
12:10: Focusing on what you can control
14:00: Recognizing your own strength.
15:25: Using creative activities.
18:20: Returning to childlike joy.
21:45: Limiting responsibility to a comfortable level.
26:00: Acknowledging your everyday accomplishments.
27:30: Developing comfort with uncertainty.
32:00: Being honest with yourself.
34:00: Recap
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