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The Pleaser, but It Doesn't Please Anyone
"We're trained to be pleasers. And this doesn't serve anyone because, you know, like actually men much more enjoy it when we're genuinely enjoying it," she says. "My insecurity was that I didn't know what I like because there was so little pleasure for me that I couldn't redirect." She talks about her journey with pleasure meditation and tan-bagan-daoist practices.