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177: Understanding People Pleasing with Natalie Lue

The Couples Therapist Couch

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The Importance of Being Yourself

As children, we learn to play roles within the environments that we grow up in. And if we get a lot of praise for coming home and delivering the grades, we're like, oh, well, my worth lies in how well I perform. If we are given what are actually inappropriate responsibilities where maybe we are. Hairgiving for adults, we are old before our time,. Maybe we've been raising our siblings, so we don't get to be a kid ourselves. Then we end up thinking of my job is to be self sacrificing and to not have needs and to be needed by others to fix. We carry that forward instead of standing in our own value and believing that we are deserving

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