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S3, Ep8 How to Fail: Pandora Sykes

How To Fail With Elizabeth Day

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The Importance of Controlling Others

I think a big lesson of getting older is realizing that I can't control everyone and everything. And also being controlling is really unattractive. It was helpful for me when someone said to me that not everyone has the same standards as you do. That's not a pejorative thing. There's no shade in someone having different standards. They're just different. So if I thought, oh, that person hasn't write a submission to thank you, let's run, I did. But that person probably didn't do something really annoying that I did. it's just cutting people a bit more slack in your brain, isn't it?

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