Transformation with Lorie G.
Organize 365 Podcast
Navigating Caregiving Challenges
This chapter discusses the complexities of caregiving, focusing on the dual challenges of managing a loved one's health and maintaining personal well-being. It emphasizes the importance of seeking second opinions in medical care, organizing health information, and creating a supportive environment for care. The conversation also touches on practical solutions for planning trips and incorporating personal interests into the caregiving journey.
In this episode, I reintroduce you to Lorie G. Lorie lives with her dad but still has her own place, too. I hope you remember previous episodes with Lorie. There were some fun things going on in her and her dad’s life that I thought would be fun to share with you!
Lorie and her 95 year old dad decided to take a trip from southern California to Dallas to see family. Lorie was so prepared. She created a whole binder for the trip complete with daily itineraries, pre-selected outfits, and medical information about her father. Lorie had created a little to-go packet (small version of the The Paper Solution® Medical Binder) that was more convenient to travel with. Lorie noted that all this planning allowed her to be present on the trip. But nothing could have prepared them for all the car troubles they encountered. She was thankful they traveled with cash because that was the only way to pay the tow truck out in the middle of the desert.
In the Medical Binder, Lorie keeps a vitals check tracker sheet she made. We both agreed it’s important to know what is normal for the person you help care for. Let’s say she brings her dad in and his blood pressure is high. It might be high for the average person, but she has physical evidence showing a history of this being his normal. Lorie knew something was off with her dad one morning before one of his appointments. She called ahead to tell the doctor, they called ahead to the hospital, and Lorie brought his Medical Binder. Her dad asked why and she said just because she wanted to. If they needed paperwork, she’d have it. In the past they have not been able to access test results, but Lorie has had the physical copy. And there’s something to be said for a doctor to look at the paperwork and be able to carry on a conversation with you, too. But sure enough, unbeknownst to him, he needed to go to the hospital and they were already expecting him. It was a smooth transfer all because Lorie knew what was normal for her dad.
Lorie loves her dad dearly and keeping him in top shape is what she’s doing. She took a room that wasn’t being utilized well and turned it into a “fun zone” with wellness stations to encourage him to move. Lorie put a tv in so they could do workouts together; he’s got a recumbent bike, tension bands, and room to stretch.
Along with movement, Lorie makes sure she and her dad eat well. Back when she was a teacher and had an hour commute, she’d be too tired to cook when she got home. This birthed “Crazy Cooking Day.” Much like how I like to get all my machines working for me at one time, Lorie gets her crock pot, insta-pot, stove top, and oven all working at the same time. In 4 hours, she can prep up to 60 meals for them to eat well for awhile. She makes individual servings. And she saves money by bulking up on sale items that go into those dishes. She’s mentioned it many times in the Organize 365® community app - go look for the directions. And if it’s a going out night, they just scratch off a circle from the sheet Lorie made to see what restaurant they are going to! Lorie created one for field trips too so they can get movement somewhere other than just the fun zone.
Lorie’s advice is, “The Medical Binder is critical for everyone in your family.” And I added that it may just be you who needs one. If something happens to you, then your family has all the pertinent information. If you are adopted like Lorie, it’s even more valuable. It’s so important for us to know our own medical data to be more participatory with our wellness/illnesses course of action.
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