The Father's Holding Environment

In a way, they're trusting me to have it all together for them So I'm going to interpret the situation. They don't have to yeah, can you hold so they can let that go? Yeah, but I can I can see the parameters. I can see what's happening and I'm the safe You know and it feels like only in that kind of relationship Can I have the courage to let go?Yeah, because I don't just want to be like a Swamp yes, yeah, yeah,. Because the some of the language in psychology for that is a holding environment Parents provide a holding environment, but that means that you're able to take big Seemingly chaotic and scary