How Do You Know if You Can't Disrespect Your Mother?

Sandra and Andy had two big rules: honor mom. You don't have to honor me, but you've got to honor mom that she is off limits in terms of distance. Sandra would commit after conversation, she would over here and she's like, why do you let him talk to you that way? I'm like, because that's what's in him and I'm okay. He was not confused though that it was disrespectful because he would always come back and apologize. So even in those years when he just almost couldn't help but erupt, he erupted here, but he circled back.