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How to Recognize Belonging
In systemic coaching there's a slightly different approach where we look to the past a little more. Not in a therapeutic way, but merely to identify the origins of the pattern. And so hence this question: Did you grow up in an orphanage? Because often if you're in an orphanages and you're moved around a lot, you would have had a childhood experience of not belonging. The client themselves thought this was a strange question and said, that's a very odd question. But then realized that, oh my goodness, my father did. My father moved orphanage every less than every year. So he moved several times as a child. That pattern of moving jobs is an echo,