Any experience, no matter how wonderful it might be, is inherently permanent. So even if we got this incredible fulfilment from something, overtime, the feeling vanishes. And then we want that feeling againo and as that drop happens in the body, it can lead into what you were saying initially, which is that feeling of lack. Younow, so we had something, and now it's gone, and we want it again. That cycle, i think, it is really dangerous. We need to exercise a little bit of free will in that kind of decision making process that the brain goes through. A second thing, if i couldt say from my own experience, is to be
On this episode, Dr. Rick Hanson and Forrest begin the strength of Motivation with an episode that explores how we can pursue our goals with passion and purpose, without becoming painfully attached to them.
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Timestamps:
1:20: Why are liking and wanting different?
4:45: What causes us to tip from liking into wanting?
8:25: If liking is good and wanting is bad, why is it so easy to tip into wanting?
12:30: Forrest’s experience with video games.
16:45: Addiction and moments of lucidity.
19:10: Identifying wanting through drivenness.
21:00: Things that pull us into wanting.
24:30: How can we stay in liking?
29:00: The danger of auto-wanting.
30:45: Delusional desire.
32:45: Recap
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