Polyamory and Relationship Anarchy

In relationship anarchy all relationships are relationships and so every single relationship has the ability to customize itself. It can be a little misleading to think that this smorgasbord has a platter of sexual and romantic doesn't mean there is any expectation you'll pick anything from that area at all right? So you could you know go through this with your mail carrier or whatever why I always go to the mail carrier is like the sort of random acquaintance relationship but you could, it's consensual if it's consensual and ethical you could. And then the other side of it is in something like a non-monogamous relationship or maybe you're more experienced with polyamory and you're dating someone