The Key to Relationship Development Is Spend Hard

The way that we try to get what we want is by demanding it, right? Demanding our kids do this, demanding our friends do this. As soon as the power player who's demanding stuff, as soon as the person has the ability to leave, then demand relationship breaks. I think this is one of the biggest struggles we have as humans. Each of us have things we value. The people we love, we want them to value the same things we do. We connect really easily, but when someone's values are different than ours, that's where we struggle. Or when you and somebody have the same value in one thing, but in different values, something else. That's