Is It Helpful to Be Self Deprecating or Compleasing?

A lot of times with between guys, there can be a competitive dynamic. And so i think there's a way in which the kind of things you just said, where you might say something a little self deprecating, or you might kind of compliment the other person, i think that helps disarm that hyper competitive, you know, a do et out. I think this is really like a kind of social icito or judo. Or in the book, we talk about tiche, which is a similar it's also a martial art. Its a, these martial arts are based on the idea that am in a conflict, one way to approach a conflict is to meet force with

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